Secret To Make Your Ex Return Your Call

Discover the Secret Technique That Almost Magically Compels Your Ex To Return Your Call.

 Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly always cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.

To get a better insight into this problem I got in touch with T W Jackson, author of the popular book The Magic of Making Up, to share some of his vast knowledge with us.
This is what he shared since, according to him, this is one of the biggest questions he gets from the over 35,000 of his subscribers that are trying to put their relationship back together.
Here is how he answered that vexing question...  "How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?”
However, before he started, he explained that in the book, Magic Of Making Up, he lays out a complete strategy.If what he is about to divulge here is used alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy... then more damage to your relationship might be done than if they never returned your call.

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Here is what else he had to say:
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First, What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works. And even worse...
puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.
These usually fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD - Where the message sounds like
"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY-
"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?
So, I won't go on and on...
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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are
*Curiosity &
*Self Interest
And here's the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'
So...
Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone:
"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John will NOT be able to resist!
"What did I do?"
"What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.
Now...
Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible.
But more importantly...
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2nd WARNING!
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Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in The Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call. If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.
Okay?
What I am saying is...
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.
Make sense?
Have a PLAN!

Rooting For You,
Good Luck.

How to Get an Ex Back

 Learn What To Do And What Not To Do To Get Back Your Ex!

  Did you just experience a break up? Are you wondering how to go get an ex back? Almost nearly every adult has experienced some kind of a break up, and most just work on moving on rather than looking for a way to get an ex back. But if you are over playing the victim and want to put some work in to get an ex back, then there are options for you. Everyone deals with breakup, but does break up simply mean that you cannot get back together with your ex?

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The fact is, 90 percent of the time there is no reason why you cannot get an ex back after a break up, providing that you know what steps are necessary to win your ex back. The first step in learning how to get an ex back is to determine what exactly happened that caused the break up. Even though you cannot go back into the past, and you cannot change what happened, you can learn from the mistakes that were made and you can try to learn and grow from the experiences.

The break up may have occurred because of a single event, or it may have occurred from behaviors that your ex could not deal with anymore. No matter what the reason was that led to the breakup, you need to get the specifics figured out so that you can deal with the situation if it should ever come up again. You can get an ex back if you know how, but if you want to make it work on a long term basis, you need to figure out what went wrong in the first place.

The next step in the process is to ensure that you are not coming off as a needy person. Everyone will feel like they cannot live without their ex, but there is no point in making this obvious. Instead, you should stay strong, and let your ex see that you are doing just fine by yourself. If you let everyone around you see your comfort and self confidence, then you will have a better chance of getting back together with your ex.

Trying to get back at your ex, or trying to make your ex jealous is not a good way to operate. In fact, these are some of the worst things that you can possibly do, because it will show your ex that he or she should simply move on because you already have. While you do want your ex to see that you're doing ok, you do not want it to inspire him or her to completely move on if your ideal scenario is to get back together. Let your ex see how strong and self confident you are, and they will feel inspired to get back together with you.